First of all, I would like to make it clear about the post title. I choose the main theme as “Scorpio Aries Compatibility – Scorpio’s love with shota/loli”. Shota and Loli are the Japanese terms. However, I am creative and use two terms with a different meaning. When you click on the word Shota and Loli, Wikipedia will tell you the original meaning from Japan culture.
In this post, I use Shota and Loli in a different setting. Scorpio and Aries, I compare their relationship as love with Shota ( Scorpio woman and Aries man); and love with Loli (Scorpio man and Aries woman). I don’t offend about the sexual orientation in purpose. I prefer the mindset between Scorpio and Aries.
Aries is the first Zodiac-> It symbols for the initial starting everything. Aries mindset also considers as a child in 12 horoscopes because it’s simple and kind of naive. Aries talks whatever the brain thinks. Aries also does the action without thinking about the result, the following effect. Do you feel it’s childish?
In contrast, Scorpio has an adult’s mindset. Comparing with Aries, Scorpio is way more mature than Aries in life, in human relationships, and perhaps in love as well. We will dig more about the differences laid in Scorpio and Aries in the second section’s post.
The common traits of both Scorpio and Aries
When we put Scorpio on one side and Aries on another side, we see there still have some common traits: (not in order)
- The stubbornness
- The honesty and sincerity when it comes to love relationship
- The aggressiveness falling to the fighting spirit more
- The promise trust. Both do what they can in order to keep the promise. Both rather keep the promise than personal safety.
- The certain romantic degree in dating.
Nevertheless, those common traits don’t good enough to erase the distance between Scorpio and Aries (it doesn’t mention the Geography distance yet!). Neither it takes as the attraction. The differences between Scorpio and Aries are the decision-maker.
The differences take the attraction role
| Scorpio | Aries |
| As known as the Darkness and the Death | As known as the Light and the Life beginning |
| Scorpio is the Water Sign | Aries is the first sign of Fire |
| Scorpio has more the feminine (regardless of the genders) | Aries has more the masculine (regardless of the genders too) |
| Scorpio mind is mysterious | Aries mind similar as a child |
| Scorpio doubts other a lot | Aries is naive, just once. The second time you use some tricks, Aries will beat you. |
| Scorpio doesn’t give up easily. Scorpio insists to go to the end no matter what result | Aries loses the patience fastly. One plus point is Aries comes back after cheering up. |
| Scorpio’s possessiveness is intense. Scorpio easy gets jealous | Aries isn’t often jealous |
| Scorpio thinks deeply and arranges plans | Aries just enjoys the current moment, doesn’t care about what happened tomorrow |
| Scorpio considers as the introvert | Aries is the extrovert |
Looking at the table, those 9 traits take the essential attraction. Besides, Scorpio pays attention to Aries at the first time because of the activeness. If they have a chance to meet each other again, challenges exist when they want to exchange personal contact. The reason lays in the table above.
Scorpio doesn’t trust people easily. Scorpio pride and the self-safety, Scorpio will keep it as a secret. It makes Aries curious. Slowly more curious turn into the aggressiveness. What Scorpio wants to hide, Aries wants to find out about it.
During the process, there are a lot of “mouth fight” between them. Even Scorpio feels Aries is attractive, but the Scorpio mind is mature. Scorpio still needs to observe Aries more because Scorpio doesn’t know what Aries wants, what Aries’s purpose, what benefit Aries eyes on Scorpio.
IF Scorpio and Aries somehow get closer by sharing one secret together, one of them will initial chasing on another. It’s hard to tell who will take the first move since both behaviors change in a love relationship. They act like different person when they stay alone together. If you have a chance to look at the transformation, you will notice they change their position.
Scorpio becomes more alive, more humor, shows the caring side (which completely opposite with the normal cold self-image). Aries somehow take more control of the temper. Aries also thinks more before saying.
However, that is the result when both yield each other a little bit.
When dating… somehow challenges appear all the time. What Scorpio says, Aries might don’t understand. Misunderstanding happens on a daily basis. Aries doesn’t feel comfortable when Scorpio keeps a lot of secrets. In the meanwhile, Scorpio demands Aries being sincere all the time. Aries might don’t know that will help Scorpio. The simpler Aries, The more love Scorpio has for Aries.
Scorpio also feels appreciate inside when Aries brings Scorpio to discover new things. Scorpio feels shy and embarrassed if Scorpio says thank you to Aries. most of the cases, Scorpio uses the action replacing for the “thank you” word. Scorpio takes care of Aries when it has the situation.
Suggestions If you want to have a longer relationship
Summary Scorpio and Aries relationship is the relationship between yin and yang. Both have great internal energy. It’s different, yet it’s attracted to each other. It’s okay to have some fights in this relationship.
Don’t over-do and don’t rely much on those fighting moments. It’s good when the fight keeps the passion fire still. Scorpio needs to control the words during the fight. Don’t harass Aries nor hurt Aries’ pride.
As the fight is heated up, leave each other for a while.
If Scorpio’s secret is the big concern to Aries, Aries can ask Scorpio’s explanation. Or Scorpio can say to Aries such as ” Even I share with you, you might not understand. Do you have enough patience to listen while you have many distractions?”
And then Scorpio should give a chance to Aries. Scorpio would surprise when Aries stays in the spot and listen attentively. Like an adult tells the stories to the child. It needs to be patient enough and the trust of both parties.
Scorpio Aries’s relationship isn’t compatible much because of many differences. They would love, hate at the same time. If they can’t stand anymore, break-up definitely clear. Erase once for all. Commit to never look back and never meet each other face.